Guys, I found myself in this predicament a couple of times with past girlfriends. And I must tell you guys, the one thing I see over and over again on the forum is guys like me.
Guys who are nice, we always try hard. We notice when she is moody, we ask what's wrong, how can we fix it. And if we complaint just for a second, they are so quick to point to the door and say "there is the door, leave if you dont like it." Honestly, if it were that simple we would have done it a while ago. And we can't because we love them, so damn much and we still want to work things out. because we love the good times, but unfortunately the good times are few.
I say do what I did. Whenever she is moody, give her her space. I know it is not easy. Most of the time, we want to fix the problem so that both of us will be happy. But no matter how hard we try, they just don't see it like that so stop trying! The more you try the more she will push you away.
I believe the reason is because she is comfortable in the relationship. She knows you won't leave her, which is why she makes those hurtful comments. She feels like she has a good hold of you. So what do we do?
Whenever she is moody, do the same thing she does, act like its nothing and "do your thing" . Don't let her mood ruin your day. Involve yourself in your life. Make her an aspect of your life NOT the center of it. What I'm trying to say is make her miss you, and if she acts like that again, punish her by not giving her attention. But don't make it obvious, she will notice.
Of course she won't admit to it. But trust me, give it some time and just like any old habit that is hard to erase, but it will die out eventually.
quoted from http://www.dearcupid.org/question/moody-girlfriend.html by diamondClan
minor edit by me
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